I love you, but I love myself more.

Wow, I haven't posted in 11 days. I normally can't shut the fuck up, so here's to getting back into my incessant rambling.

I've been thinking about how it's so important we (as bitches) build ourselves up.  We have to love ourselves, respect ourselves & be confident in ourselves.  We can be out own worst enemy or our biggest fan. 

I've recently had trouble in my relationship with mandog, which made me realize the importance of being independent enough to be a happy, healthy fitbitch either on my own or in a happy, healthy relationship.

Samantha the blonde horndog is my favorite Sex & the City character & she says my favorite line:

I love you, but I love myself more

 Yes, it's true that you should love your partner & give them all you can give, but when you care more for their health & happiness than your own, it's time to move on; ESPECIALLY when they don't return the favor.  A relationship should be reciprocal.  Give & take, bitches.


So this brings me to my fitness part of this post.  I run because it's a boyfriend that won't dump you.  All you need are your legs & feet (& if your rack is that huge, a sports bra).  If you're a bad girlfriend or boyfriend, you'll get dumped.  If you're a financial moron, the bank can take your house.  If you feed your kid lard, child services will take it.  Running can't be taken away.  I love having something that's all mine.


I can just go out & run until I start to pee myself.  It's freeing.  It makes my legs & ass look great & it keeps me mentally fit.  It helps me work on myself.  I build myself up & come back happier after a run than when I left.

Whatever your escape is, take advantage of it.

Take time to take care of yourself.